What is love if someone lies
is it the same as if he dies,
so what if I could not cry when he left,
does it mean now my heart has found rest,
and who is to say he was mine alone,
when he hardly spent any time at home,
love is easy when it is right,
when it is not yours you will always fight.
Sometimes the quiet after a storm is a welcoming feeling. A few days ago a terrible wind storm ripped throughout the area leaving lots of damage in its wake. But when it was all over and the turbulence had passed the calmness in the atmosphere was utterly refreshing. The howling of the winds and the sound of trees breaking can result in people around becoming highly stressed.
Consider then the constant fighting in a relationship, a relationship that was supposed to be built on love, care and comfort. It is like a continuous storm battling with emotions, battling with the mind, battling with your peace and leaving you in a constant state of conflict and distress.
There is always peace after a storm, and the tranquility that arises is proof enough that when a relationship breaks down, something better has come. That better thing is peace, both emotional and physical.
You may even consider that you were deceived and purposely so, well, even if that may be true, the peace that now exists in your heart and mind after the storm is payment enough. Take a look around after a bad storm, the environment looks strange till clean up removes all the destruction.
You too can clean up after the storm, don’t look back but look forward, make a choice to embrace the freedom and peace, embrace the calm and quietness, and then embrace the strength you now have. Your storm is past, so look forward with joy to the best happening in your life.